Wednesday, December 30, 2020

"Give to the Lord, you families, glory and praise!"/Baby Jesus shows us that God wants to be with us in the most personal way!/No longer afraid of the dark!

Six years ago Pat's mother holding 3 month old Romeo with Pat holding 6 month old Dominic.  In the last 17 years we have had constant prayers for the new life in the womb for one or many of our children.  Romeo marked the arrival of the 3rd of a group of grandsons all born within 10 months of each other.  Following them we had 3 granddaughters within the next year.  

How we love LIFE and pray for them from the moment we are aware of them in the womb.  We are open to LIFE and raising them as LIGHTS for the world!  This is so much a part of our family framework that when it comes to the Christ child at this Christmas season - we certainly are in awe of The Christ Child and the Truth we see there that He made our families holy by his arrival and that as he came in the form of a human infant - how He proclaimed to the world that LIFE is a gift to be cherished and protected from conception to natural death!  

https://familysoulstory.blogspot.com/p/my-most-cherished-cross-patrick-gerard.html

Our newest family member is Maria's 7th child.  She appears to be peacefully gazing up at her creator in the womb assuring us that all was well after a scare of bleeding that got us all praying without ceasing for her.  Maria said that she wanted our prayers and she got them indeed!
Birdie Barbara is my first namesake and also our youngest little grandchild.  Many prayers for her since we were happily surprised that she was to join our family.  The beauty of natural family planning is that Jesus is on control.  Taking our families into our own hands is not allowing Jesus to be involved, and how we need to have Jesus in the center of our families and in our marriages!

The Psalm for today speaks loudly of how we are called to have Christ at the center of our domestic Church/family!  

Responsorial Psalm PS 96:7-8A, 8B-9, 10

R. (11a) Let the heavens be glad and the earth rejoice!
Give to the LORD, you families of nations,
give to the LORD glory and praise;
give to the LORD the glory due his name!
R. Let the heavens be glad and the earth rejoice!
Bring gifts, and enter his courts;
worship the LORD in holy attire.
Tremble before him, all the earth.
R. Let the heavens be glad and the earth rejoice!

If you know me you see that I rejoice to read the holy attire part!  How I love to dress up!  Being a farmers wife and having farm clothes... any time I go to town or mass or any reason - I adore to dress up!  Having 4 girls in a row added to that obsession and JOY of my life!
Christmas 1982... Nancy was about the age of Birdie now. So fun to see the family resemblance to her Verly aunts.
Young and in "holy attire."  Dressing up to pay respect to our Lord and Savior's birth!  
1983 with new baby Maria... 

Many thoughts these days about our homes being the place that we share our Faith/nurture the seeds planted at Baptism.

Nancy and Bill are in the midst of a huge project called The Domestic Church project.  Here are her words...

I’m terrified about the upcoming launch of the Domestic Church Project.

Like, up at night, weeping in adoration, heart palpitations, terrified. I’ve been trying very hard to keep my fear a secret, but I just can’t anymore.

I’m not worried for the reasons you might think. If no one signs up and the entire project is a flop because it wasn’t actually directed by the Holy Spirit, I’m fine with that. God’s will be done.

I’m worried that God has asked us to do this...and that we will mess it up. I’m worried that our own issues and imperfections will get in the way of building Domestic Churches.

Honestly, I’m worried that God has asked the wrong people to take on this work.

Afterall, who are we? Our prayer lives are a struggle, our kids have issues with lying and disrespect and laziness...and so do we. It doesn’t make any sense that WE should be the ones doing this work. There has to be someone better than us!

I find it especially crippling when I am reminded of just how important this work is. Catholic Parents (you) are the key to renewing our Church. If we fail to embrace the work of building our Domestic Churches, if we fail to teach the Faith in our homes, then our Church will suffer.

Friend, the stakes are very high. Nothing matters more than what happens in your home and what takes place between you and your children.

Up until today I have been trying to deal with this fear by dressing up The Domestic Church Project offering. We have been obsessing over the details and working ourselves ragged adding cool features to the app, brainstorming guest speakers, adding more resources...but this morning in adoration God pushed all of that aside.

He took away everything that I had been hiding behind and spoke plainly to my heart.

Catholic Families need a program that shows them HOW to teach the Faith at home.

Catholic Families need a program that trains them in their own homes and with their own kids.

Catholic Families need a program that requires zero prep and walks them through the entire process of building a Domestic Church.

Catholic Families needed a Domestic Church Project Bootcamp.

Through the grace of God we created this bootcamp this summer. We tested the bootcamp with over 100 families this fall. We verified that the bootcamp worked and that it was able to utterly transform families.

Now, after being reworked based on the feedback from our beta test, the bootcamp is ready for you and your family.

Yes, the DCP Bootcamp lives inside of our beautiful new app. Yes, you will have the support of a community of Catholic Parents as you go through the Bootcamp. Yes, we have created lots of other resources to support you after the Bootcamp, including liturgical studies and saint stories.

But all of that is extra.

This is about your home and your family, not an app.

My friend, I don’t know why God has put us here or why He is offering this through us. Perhaps it is simply to prove that He really can use even His lowliest servants.

But please, as you consider being part of the Domestic Church Project in 2021, forget us, and forget the app. Think about your family. Are you living out your call to be the primary educator of your children’s faith? Is your home a school of love? Are you living the sacramental life at home?

...or, are you like us, and you need a little help with all of these things?

If so, then I invite you to join us in the Domestic Church Project app on January 1. Building a Domestic Church is our calling, and it is a big responsibility, but, we don’t have to do it alone.

Thank you for your continued prayers as we attempt to leave ourselves behind and embrace the work God has given us.

In Christ,

Bill and Nancy


John and I and kitten Christmas years ago...
John's precious little girl a week ago... she resembles her daddy and his sisters a lot!  Such a gift to us!
Christmas 2017

Birdie a recently in her mom's sleeper!
With Joy after mass dressed in holy attire for baby Jesus!
LOVE this baby Jesus given to me by Bernadette - so precious that our Lord showed us the beauty of human life come from the womb of a woman... a woman chosen by God to bear his Son to the world, and then given to us as our Mother at the foot of the Cross to bring into our homes and bring all our needs to her Son, who loves her so much and listens to her!  
Pat wore his snowman tie picked out for him by the grandkids... love it when hubby dresses up for mass!

Maria and family dressed up "in holy attire" for Christmas Eve Mass!  LOVE!  

Not only did Jesus show us the beauty of human life from conception, but he also came to us in our lives in this most personal way of a perfect helpless newborn.  So very personal is a new baby in a family as we all tend to their needs, which are total!  In Maria's family, her oldest daughter, Therese, is a total loving and caring big sister.  Probably since Patrick she has helped with dressing and changing of diapers and any other need that might happen. Maria feeds them, of course, but Therese is always there to help in any way!  I am sure the two girls, including 4 years old Evangeline, are super excited to know that they will have a new baby sister on June 1st!  Therese will model for Evie how to care for a new baby.  

Grandpa with George over Christmas with Nancy's family!  This man of mine is such a lover of LIFE and the little ones adore him and he them!  He is my champion of LIFE and family.  On our first date we talked about what we valued and wanted to have in our family and our spouse.  #1 - our Catholic Faith - Pat shocked his sisters years before - telling them that he would only marry a Catholic!  #2 Being open to life and wanting a large family - 12kids, which turned out to be 7 in heaven and 5 here with us.  #3 love of nature/farming which is a way of life not just a job!

When we realized that we looked for the same thing for a spouse - the fact that I was 3 years older never bothered him, so why not?  Within a year we were married!

Jesus, we are so blessed to see your hand at work in our lives!  We love and adore your coming into the world of darkness with your marvelous LIGHT!  LIFE is a most precious gift and we fall on our knees to adore you and you give us LOVE!  Gazing upon that helpless baby in the humble manger, we are reminded of how we are personally included in your holy family if only we die to self and return that unconditional Love and forgiveness we are given to those the closest to us in our domestic Church/family.  Jesus, we trust in you.  Amen and Hallelujah


After mass on Sunday of Labor Day weekend - dad in his Sunday shirt, which he wore each of the 25 Sundays he was here and all other special occasions!  How we loved to underline the word "glory" in his prayer books used for the last 44 years as a permanent deacon.  How I thank him with each day since he brought all 13 of us into The Church 49 years ago!  How I miss him, and our sharing his "religious life" at our farm monastery.  Yet, I continue to be blessed by all the daily prayers he left me each day!  Thank you, dad for making my life filled with "glory and praise"!  Bless-bless, Barbara
https://familysoulstory.blogspot.com/p/the-amazing-story-of-13-becoming.html

Dad's special, Brother Victor in his monastery today... love to share in his LIFE of prayer and praise!

From the Magnificat today - Mother Elvira
Like Jesus, we need a mother who understands and fulfills the desires of our heart.   The Mother is Mary, the humble, simple, faithful servant who smiles upon us, invites us, welcomes us, and takes us to contemplate the manger, where the splendor of LIGHT is never extinguished.  Immersed in this light, we find a life that is truly eternal.  Let us thank Mary, our Mother, who leads us to live in that LIGHT because, like every mother, she knows that children are afraid of the dark!  Jesus, repeatedly tells us, "I am the light of the world.  He who follows me does not walk in the darkness, but will have the LIGHT of LIFE."  (Jn 8:12)


 "He is the Bread sown in the virgin, leavened in the Flesh,
molded in His Passion, baked in the furnace of the Sepulchre,
placed in the Churches, and set upon the Altars, 
which daily supplies Heavenly Food to the faithful."
 St Peter Chrysologus

 
O beata infantia
Chant for the Christmas season
 
O blessed Infancy,
by which the life of our race
has been restored!
O very dear and delightful cries,
by which we have escaped
eternal lamentation!
O blessed swaddling clothes,
with which the defilement of our sins
has been wiped away!
O splendid manger,
in which lay not just the hay of animals,
but in which was found the Food of Angels!
__________
 
Sixth Day of Christmas





Christmas Gregorian Chants... LOVE - thanks, Brother Victor-Antoine!  This makes me feel close to my Hallel and her Community of the Lamb and their chanting the psalms...
 

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