Sunday, December 27, 2020

"God chose to transform the Family through the birth of Christ into the Holy Family." Fr Denny/"What do we look for in a 'good Christian spouse'? "

After 2 wonderful days with Nancy's family in Delano, we stopped in to get some Christmas hugs from our 2 youngest grandchildren, Birdie and Jude.  We are so blessed to have warm wonderful homes to visit in our circle of family.  

Yes, Birdie got her two front bottom teeth for Christmas!  These two give us so much happiness along with their 17 older cousins!  The excitement is building along with many prayers for our newest granddaughter in the womb!  Maria's #7 will arrive in the spring, and there will be a year between Birdie and her... cousin friends for life!
A couple days away from sharing here... yet, so many wonderful beautiful readings from mom and dad, and for midnight Christmas mass we shared with Bill and Nancy and their 5, as well as this morning such an amazing gift of The mass of The Holy Family shared with Ruth and John and their families.  

Sitting there with hubby holding 7 month old Birdie Barbara, and John and Bobbi sitting close by and Ruth and Paul filling the front row with their family... Fr Denny's homily on the Holy Family was out of this world amazing.  I just listened to it again on our Church site, and how I wish I could share it here for all to hear!  So excellent!  

Stunning sunset last evening...
Ready for mass this morning in my prayer space and the many books that mom and dad left me to.... I groaned over the Office of Readings today in dad's prayer of the Church left here for me, and opened each day to see dad's underlines and exclamation points as he continues to teach me!

From Pope Paul VI

From an address by Saint Paul VI, pope
(Nazareth, January 5, 1964)

Nazareth, a model


Nazareth is a kind of school where we may begin to discover what Christ’s life was like and even to understand his Gospel. Here we can observe and ponder the simple appeal of the way God’s Son came to be known, profound yet full of hidden meaning. And gradually we may even learn to imitate him.

Here we can learn to realize who Christ really is. And here we can sense and take account of the conditions and circumstances that surrounded and affected his life on earth: the places, the tenor of the times, the culture, the language, religious customs, in brief, everything which Jesus used to make himself known to the world. Here everything speaks to us, everything has meaning. Here we can learn the importance of spiritual discipline for all who wish to follow Christ and to live by the teachings of his Gospel.

How I would like to return to my childhood and attend the simple yet profound school that is Nazareth! How wonderful to be close to Mary, learning again the lesson of the true meaning of life, learning again God’s truths. But here we are only on pilgrimage. Time presses and I must set aside my desire to stay and carry on my education in the Gospel, for that education is never finished. But I cannot leave without recalling, briefly and in passing; some thoughts I take with me from Nazareth.

First, we learn from its silence. If only we could once again appreciate its great value. We need this wonderful state of mind, beset as we are by the cacophony of strident protests and conflicting claims so characteristic of these turbulent times. The silence of Nazareth should teach us how to meditate in peace and quiet, to reflect on the deeply spiritual, and to be open to the voice of God’s inner wisdom and the counsel of his true teachers. Nazareth can teach us the value of study and preparation, of meditation, of a well-ordered personal spiritual life, and of silent prayer that is known only to God.

Second, we learn about family life. May Nazareth serve as a model of what the family should be. May it show us the family’s holy and enduring character and exemplify its basic function in society: a community of love and sharing, beautiful for the problems it poses and the rewards it brings, in sum, the perfect setting for rearing children—and for this there is no substitute.

Finally, in Nazareth, the home of a craftsman’s son, we learn about work and the discipline it entails. I would especially like to recognize its value—demanding yet redeeming—and to give it proper respect. I would remind everyone that work has its own dignity. On the other hand, it is not an end in itself. Its value and free character, however, derive not only from its place in the economic system, as they say, but rather from the purpose it serves.

In closing, may I express my deep regard for people everywhere who work for a living. To them I would point out their great model, Christ their brother, our Lord and God, who is their prophet in every cause that promotes their well-being.

Fr Denny is such a gift to have here in our parish now!  

Live - Holy Redeemer Catholic Church - Marshall, MN (holy-redeemer.com)   If you have a few minutes take the time to listen to Fr Denny share about " good Christian father, mother and child" !  I just listened to it for the second time, and took notes so I will attempt to share with you his wise and stirring words...  As son-in-law, Paul, said; "He hit it out of the park when he started with what we should be looking for in a spouse."  Yes, how my heart soared when I saw 6 of my grandchildren sitting in the front row including my 2 oldest, 16 year old Simon and 14 year old Mary...  "When looking for  spouse you are hopefully mature enough to look beyond infatuation and outward appearance  to find good Christian values."  

https://familysoulstory.blogspot.com/p/my-most-cherished-cross-patrick-gerard.html  The story of Pat and I - on our first date we shared what we valued and were looking for in a spouse, our Catholic Faith #1, being open to a large family #2, and love of the farm/nature #3.  The same so the dating, engagement and Sacrament of marriage arrived in a year total!!!

The Christmas beauty is like witnessing living True JOY!

Joy took grandma to see Baby Jesus in the manger - this nativity has been here for Pat as a child and his children and now their children!
Luke joins his little sister...

My notes on a good Christian father, modeled by from Fr Denny's homily today!  - a man of prayer.  He saw things the way God saw them/wisdom.  He stood up to the pressures of the world, and protected his family from bad influences... so prevalent today with all the evil just a mouse click away!

Jesus came as a helpless infant to transform our family into a holy family and died on the Cross to allow us to be freed from the bondage of sin and death!
The LIGHT has banished the sin and darkness of the culture of death.

A genuine Christian woman - we look to Mary, who was a woman of prayer and integrity.  She knew that she was created in the image and likeness of the image of God, and said "yes" to all He asked of her.  A holy woman sacrificed and nurtures her family.  She makes God present in her home- she feeds them food both to eat and spiritual food.

So very blessed to be at home at mass together each week!  After some time away due to the world pandemic... it is most precious to us now more than ever.  My father is now gone, so I am free to have more relaxed family time although I miss him terribly at the same time.  

Fr Denny about being good Christian children - being obedient to your parents, and for all of the family from father, to mother and children... "Obedient to God, and caring for others.  Not concerned with what "I" want!  Everyone sees themselves as subservient and obedient to God.  Put God first as we follow the example of the Holy Family.'  Fr Denny
Mary with her Christmas gift - letter jacket!  
Light snow today added to the winter beauty as we gathered at the farm for our joyfilled family brunch after sharing Holy Family mass!
Warm and cozy on the inside while we await our meal shared happily... in two weeks when we will all gather only missing Susan... we will  attend 8a mass together... all 29 and then have our traditional Sunday rolls, fruit, yogurt in the heated shop!
A nativity for Birdie to enjoy...

Fr Denny's final words to all our families; "God, who created family, chose to transform the family through the birth of Christ into the Holy Family."  Yes, there is a great happiness and sharing of LOVE as we gather on the farm each week after taking Jesus into our bodies in His Body and Blood!  Maybe briefly we become the Holy family.  Rejoice!!!
Adorable youngest grandchild, 7 month old Birdie is accustomed to the huge rowdiness all around her with new puppy, and older brother and 6 cousins... 
Too cute and sweet... we do not hear the tiniest unhappy sound from this sweet girl.  So peaceful and happy!  Today she sat with grandpa at breakfast and discovered her first yogurt.
One more just because she is too sweet!
Mary and full of energy puppy, Teddy!

The first reading for today deserves to be shared today!

Reading 1 SIR 3:2-6, 12-14

God sets a father in honor over his children;
a mother’s authority he confirms over her sons.
Whoever honors his father atones for sins,
and preserves himself from them.
When he prays, he is heard;
he stores up riches who reveres his mother.
Whoever honors his father is gladdened by children,
and, when he prays, is heard.
Whoever reveres his father will live a long life;
he who obeys his father brings comfort to his mother.

My son, take care of your father when he is old;
grieve him not as long as he lives.
Even if his mind fail, be considerate of him;
revile him not all the days of his life;
kindness to a father will not be forgotten,
firmly planted against the debt of your sins
—a house raised in justice to you.

The two babies meet... Birdie and Teddy.

Lord, how we love to share your LOVE and truth in our domestic Church/family.  May we truly die to self so that we may serve without counting the cost.  The motto of the Lamb - "Wounded, I will never cease to love."  We are so lifted up by our loving and prayerful family of the Lamb and sharing our Faith as a family is our joy and happiness without end.  Jesus, we trust in you.  Amen and Hallelujah
Missing my parents, who are both gone in the last year.  
Berna and I got our table special for Christmas dinner we shared with her family!
The 3 youngest kids gifted to me from their mom!  Soon they will have a baby sister!  So excited for them and us!
Their oldest sister, Therese, who is our 3rd oldest grandchild at wonderful 12.  She is such a helpful and giving sister to her soon to be 6 younger siblings!  She is a model of being a "good Christian child."  
The only gift that grandma wants!  LOVE!  Bless-bless, Barbara


Making Belgian cookies with the Bandzuches.

A super fun dance with finger lights - 20 month old George thought it was the greatest!







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