The Pat and Barb Verly family and their 5 children, in laws and grandkids along with many prayer warriors have been drawn together by John's cancer... sharing daily for 8 months started this blog- Family Soul Story - Our faith, family, farm and now our cancer journey called HEALING have colored and deepened our world. WE continue to share and depend on the support of our prayer warrior community, that has lowered us into the Lord's presence for His healing!
A foot of fresh white snow in the bright sun streaming in the huge picture window at John and Bobbi's home yesterday. Birthday boy, Jude, is 5 and sister, Birdie will be 4 in a month, and littlest sister, Lucy, is 14 months!
At noon Jude's house was full of family! Nancy arrived from Delano to pick up her 3 older kids and help her Godson, Jude celebrate turning 5. Ruth came with most of her family, and grandma swung in after returning from MOW in Balaton. Thumbs up for our special boy!
Singing Happy Birthday with sister, Birdie Barbara, and Nancy's 2 youngest Gina, who is now 2 and George, who is 5 with Jude and Hector - 3 boys in 6 weeks!
Lucy loves his blue raspberry cake!
A sword and nerf gun - armed to the teeth seems to be what kids like these days.
Bright and beautiful with our first snow of the winter at the end of March! The farmers have been busy keeping the cows and newborn calves warm and dry. We are approaching 100 calves of the 170+ we are due to have this spring. A big busy job!
Due to the big snow storm - Jude's birthday on the 26th had to happen with just his own family and mom's wonderful cupcakes. Jude knew he was loved and special! The next day his house was full of crazy big family to give him some crazy wonderful celebration!
John's family for Easter a year ago! Little Lucy was just 3 months old, and each one of these wonderful children are a miracle! With John's brain cancer battle and all he had to go through to still be here today - he was told that he would likely have no children... Not the case in the Lord's plan for them! LIFE is the greatest gift and for John even more so!
John's Spirit Juice Video - now continues with wife and 3 precious children! Thank you, Lord and Lady!
A palm signifying that he have now entered Holy Week with Palm Sunday on Sunday. I was finally able to get out to mass on Wednesday, and then take Eucharist to 3 ladies on hospice, and one of my MOW ladies in Balaton. Such a special blessing to share Jesus with them!
Today is Holy Thursday where Jesus gives us The Eucharist and washes the Disciples feet! The Triduum begins! There is no doubt that each one of our families in Kansas, Delano, France and here in Marshall will all be attending Holy Thursday services! So powerful to be United in The Eucharist!
Danielle Rose - See you in the Eucharist
When dad and I would say the 5th Sorrowful mystery - The Crucifixion together - he would say these on 7 of the beads!
Sayings of Jesus on the cross
Matthew
Mark
Luke
John
Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do.
23:34
Verily I say unto thee, To day shalt thou be with me in paradise.
23:43
Woman, behold thy son! and Behold thy mother!
19:26–27
My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me?
27:46
15:34
I thirst.
19:28
It is finished.
19:30
Father, into thy hands I commend my spirit.
23:46
HOLY THURSDAY
Institution of the Sacraments of Holy EucharistandHoly Orders
“Consider, on your knees, the mystery of God’s love
for us,that He didn't want to leave us orphans. … For Christ knew our hunger for Himself.
He knew that we would be walking around in the darkness
of a thousand wars and miseries throughout this life. …
This is Holy Thursday. This is when the Christ we are
talking about took an ordinary piece of bread and a little wine
and changed it into His Body and His Blood.
… Remember this day always, year after year:
the day of Christ’s infinite love, when He went away
and yet He remained, in Bread and Wine,
and in the priest. …
In His immense love, Christ chosemenwho would
have His hands and His feet, in whom He could walk,
in whom He could forgive sins, who could lift Him up,
who could give us the sacrament of the Most Holy Eucharist
– the Bread and Wine,
which He said makes for everlasting life!
The incredible love of God is visible to us! ..."
Catherine de Hueck Doherty
Painting above: The Last Supper - Nesterenko, Vasily Igorevich
"Without the priest, the passion and death of our Lord would be of no avail. It is the priest who continues the work
of redemption here on earth...
Leave a parish for twenty years without a priest and they will end by worshiping the beasts there...
The priest is not a priest for himself,
he is a priest for you."
"O, how great is the priest!...
If he realized what he is, he would die."
St John Vianney Patron of all priests
Pray, pray , pray for our priests! They rely on our prayers - we rely on our priests!
As Father John Hardon, S.J., once said, “praying and offering God
sacrifices for the priesthood are indispensably important,”
because “there is no Catholic Church without the priesthood.” __________________
Prayer for Priests to pray today... and tomorrow and everyday... (St Charles Borremeo)
O holy Mother of God, pray for the priests your Son
has chosen to serve the Church. Help them,
by your intercession, to be holy, zealous, and chaste.
Make them models of virtue in the service of God’s people.
Help them be pious in meditation, efficacious
in preaching, and zealous in the daily offering
of the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass.
Help them administer the sacraments with joy.
+ Amen +
ThePaschal Triduumbegins with the Evening MassIn Cena Domini on Holy Thursday, continues through the Friday of the Lord's Passion, reaches its summit in the Solemn Paschal Vigil, and comes to a close with Sunday Vespers of the Lord's Resurrection - afull three days - evening Thursday through evening Sunday (According to theGeneral Norms for the Liturgical Year and the Calendar).
Jesus may we follow you down the narrow path with our goal of heaven forever. May I die to self so that I may serve without counting the cost. Washing the feet of others and putting their needs ahead of my own. Jesus, we trust in you. Bless-bless, Barbara and the 33 plus many little brothers and little sisters.
I have received word that our nun, Little Sister Hallel in in Rome with the foundation there to help with Holy week and Easter time. They are up with special services for all that Jesus suffered during the Triduum. I remember being there in years past and the huge fire they light in the early hours of Sunday - The LIGHT coming into the world!
Holy Thursday ~ may we pour out our hearts, like this fragrant oil, in love ~ may we give the Lord our whole selves in gratitude ~ what is most precious to us in commemorating His amazing love for us. Be blessed this day!
The 3 boys at Verly Christmas Camp are now all 5 years old as Jude joins the other two today! Our plans to celebrate together are on hold until Nancy can get here from Delano to pick up her kids and be there for her Godson, Jude Dale!
Jude and Hector are just 3 weeks apart and George is 6 weeks older - our 3 boys in 6 weeks!
Birdie is just 13 months younger than the boys and is friends with them.
Jude at one with grandpa Pat at mass 4 years ago. He now has two siblings - Birdie and Lucy, who is 14 months.
Lots of snow to move - Pat with the payloader and my spring summer wreath is seeming out of place. The first day of spring has come this last week! Pat reminds us that March came in like a lamb and is going out like lion!
Lots of heavy wet snow.
It has been a brown winter, so this is a lot of snow now at the end of March!
Psalm 71 today is so special today from mass!
5For thou, O Lord, art my hope, my trust, O LORD, from my youth.6Upon thee I have leaned from my birth; thou art he who took me from my mother's womb. My praise is continually of thee.15My mouth will tell of thy righteous acts, of thy deeds of salvation all the day, for their number is past my knowledge.17O God, from my youth thou hast taught me, and I still proclaim thy wondrous deeds. Psalm 71
I especially love the - "My praise is continually of thee." How I love this and need to do this more and feel that it is a Truth for me on the blessed Faith journey I have been given with my parents and extended family and now with our domestic Church/family! Thank you, Lord and Lady and I truly am filled with great JOY and thankfulness for how you LOVE me and forgive me unconditionally!
John with Lucy and their palm branches on Palm Sunday - we have now entered Holy week with each day leading up to the death of our Lord on Good Friday.
The Gospel today is from John 13 about Judas leaving to betray Jesus, and St Peter being told by Jesus that he would deny him 3 times before the cock crows.
Lucy loves her brother and his boots!
Walking with her pretty dress and her brother's boots on Palm Sunday as we gather for our brunch celebration with 13 of our grandchildren. Pat drove to Delano ahead of the storm to bring Nancy's 3 oldest down for some cousin time - there have now been 2 snow days and they have been spending a lot of time sledding behind the 4 wheeler.
Watching Cow TV with grandpa - we are now up to 90 plus calves on the ground. Half of our cows have calved! Lots
My butterfly for 2024 Easter - David's Confirmation with Archbishop Naumann a week ago in Fort Leavenworth, KS.
The Cross for this year.
The leaves are bursting out on my Easter tree in the house as the snow is deep outside.
Highlights from the past year includes Tom's 4 wheeler accident. He is now 100% back to normal. We will see if we can get together in the next day to celebrate our little Jude. Jesus, we love and thank you as we continually praise you with our all! Holy Week is a close walk with you, and may we take up our Cross and follow you down the narrow path. Jesus, we trust in you. Amen
Bless-bless, Barbara and the 33 plus many little sisters and little brothers.
Tuesday of Holy Week
"If you can not soar up as high as Christ sitting
on His throne, behold Him hanging on His cross.
Rest in Christ's Passion and live willingly in
His holy wounds." - Thomas à Kempis, Imitation of Christ
"Oh, my God, through the precious Blood of Jesus andHis five wounds, grant me today five graces:
the conversion of a sinner, the conversion of an unbeliever, the salvation of someone dying in peril of everlasting death; a vocation to the priesthood or to the religious life; and,for some new soul, the grace of entering into and savoring the mystery of the Eucharist."
Prayer of Elisabeth Leseur(+1914)
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Image above: Angels Bearing Instruments of the Passion
(detail from altarpiece) ~ Rogier van der Weyden (+1464)
"The Body of Christ (Eucharist) will unite
the Body of Christ (Church)." - Bishop Paul Dudley
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JOIN IN PRAYER:
Let us especially be mindful of and in prayer for
the thousands ofCatechumens and Candidates
who are preparing to fully enterthe Catholic Church on
Easter vigil and participate in her rich sacramental life!
John and Lucy with their palm branches for the procession into the sanctuary on Palm Sunday. "Hosanna in the highest!"
The Gospel at mass was the Passion of Jesus - from glory and praise to his suffering and death on the Cross.
After Church we found a white world and the boys digging out the steps and walk up to the Parsonage and The Apartments.
We still gathered at the farm for our brunch as the snow fell outside.
The night before Pat and Rose drove up to Delano to pick up Nancy's 3 oldest kids to come and have a few days on the farm with the cousins. That is a total of 5 hours on the road and dealing with snow and slippery roads for the last hour or so. My husband will sacrifice all to allow the grandkids to have time together. We had 13 of our 23 grandkids with us for a snowy Palm Sunday celebration and entering Holy Week beginning today!
Delano has the week off, and today here we had a snow day, so all the grandkids are having a day of work on the farm to keep the cows and calves dry and safe in the storm.
It was fun to see Birdie Barbara in a dress that I bought 10 years ago for Rose and Bernadette.
Both Birdie and Joy in hand me downs from the girls older than them. We get a lot of use out of our boy and girl clothes as they are passed back and forth.
On Saturday Rose, Joy and Tom helped me get my lilac tree cut for the Easter tree in my house - by Easter the buds will open into leaves!
Each year of the last 20 years I have made a cross and a butterfly for the Easter Tree. This year I used our family picture taken at VCC - Verly Christmas Camp for the first year at Lake Shetek Lutheran Camp! Every time Pat walks by this picture he just raves about how wonderful it is and how it is a picture of being Open to LIFE!
The butterfly is centered around the wonderful gift we have had with our 2 daughters both in Kansas and just 40 minutes apart! We can stay on base with Maria and Major Joseph and then spend time with Hallel and her Community of the Lamb too!
Clearing the steps at the Parsonage after mass - the snow continues today with a snow day off of school.
Dominic loves doughnuts and that is how I have gotten hugs from him in the past. He was in doughnut heaven at our brunch after Palm Sunday mass yesterday morning. We had to send this to him mom and dad and 3 younger siblings just because...
Lucy and grandpa sharing breakfast as they watched cow TV.
Cow with the feet out of her calf - in a few minutes she had a healthy calf - we are approaching 90+ calves now with that many to go yet. This snow is challenging for our guys to keep them warm and dry.
Here we go!!! Holy Week has begun! Today the Gospel is John 12 with Lazarus raised from the dead sharing a dinner in his home with Jesus. Mary anoints his feet with costly perfumed oil and wipes them with her hair! A true sign of total LOVE and devotion to her Lord Jesus!
Mary took a pound of costly ointment of pure nard and anointed the feet of Jesus and wiped his feet with her hair; and the house was filled with the fragrance of the ointment. John 12
How I pray that my house may be filled with the fragrance of my total LOVE and devotion for my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ!
A Easter butterfly made some years ago of our farm family. It was made before Thomas was born 2 years ago, so I added him in the arms of Ruth! Outside the snow keeps softly falling and there is wind to come up later today. As Pat reminded us - "March came in like an lamb, and going out like a lion."
Easter 3 years ago - all together for VCC! My Easter tree is just about ready for the leaves to open here in the house while the snow is piling up outside for the first time this winter.
For my butterfly this year - Archbishop Joseph Naumann with David on his Confirmation a week ago in Kansas. We are eternally grateful that Archbishop invited The Community of the Lamb to come to KCK in 2008 just as Hallel was entering their Community in Saint Pierre, France. I know that it was huge in her decision to know that there would be a foundation in the U.S. just half a day from our farm in Southwest MN!
The back of my Cross for this year - All the big events over the year from last Easter until this Easter. Ruth and Paul - the Apartments and much time for Tom and I, Nancy put in a in ground pool and work with her ministry - Catholic Sprouts, Maria moved to Fort Leavenworth, KS, Hallel has now left for France for 3 months to elect a new Prioress, John and Bobbi with Lucy at 1 and walking!
White world outside with inches of snow falling all day, and buds about to open on my Easter Tree in the house - a sign of new LIFE!
Out with Rose and Joy to see the new kids - 4 of them and they are bouncy like they have springs on their feet.
Joy with her arms full of a healthy kid.
Joy with her Star of the week poster that dad helped her get ready for school - she is a first grader at HRS.
My Easter Tree with Neumann playing with all the fun stuff on it!
Lucy with her brother's boots at our brunch after Palm Sunday mass.
Snow!!! Tom is now sharing the day with his 6 siblings and 3 cousins on the snowy farm!
My Cross from 4 years ago - my mom had just died a few weeks before. A week later my dad came to live with me as they would not take him back into his Assisted living after a procedure at Veteran's hospital. He spent 6 months here in my "farm monastery."
Lord and Lady I long to love and serve with out counting the cost. May I die to self and follow you down the narrow path with heaven forever as my goal. Jesus, we trust in you. Amen
Bless-bless, Barbara and the 33 plus many little sisters and Little brothers.
Monday of Holy Week
"There is only one anointing that is strong enough to meet death
and that is the anointingof the Holy Spirit, the love of God.
There is, then, something that is bothexemplary and lasting
in Mary's anointing ofJesus at Bethany. It was above all a concern
to keep Christ alive in this worldandto oppose the powers
that aimed to silence and kill him. It was an act of faith and love.
Every such act can have the same effect." - Pope Benedict XVI
(Today's Gospel: John 12:1-11)
"Nothing is held back, no drop is kept in reserve.