Thursday, August 3, 2017

Married on a Thursday at The Basilica of St Mary 39 years ago!


In honor of our 39th anniversary today... Pat and I with our nun between us... it pretty much says for me the fact that our shared faith as a couple when we met and dated - "I will only marry a Catholic." Pat Verly to his sisters a few years before we met!  Also the miracle of our sharing our Faith as a family - all 25 of us  - is the glue that holds us together and allows us a small slice of heaven on a regular basis!


Well, the idea of snapping a selfie just didn't seem to be possible this morning as we traveled to Farm Fest together.  It is pretty miraculous that we are going somewhere together as lately, other than picking up bales in different tractors yesterday, this has not been possible.  Even those rides together to get parts in town hasn't seemed to happen.  Going up with Nancy to the Cities and then on to my mom's was a solo away from home time. 
All but Joseph about 3 months ago when Hallel was home for her first home visit in 4 years!


Our girls are following in the wisdom/Holy Spirit guided basis of our marriage and now of theirs'... being open to life and raising lights!  http://familysoulstory.blogspot.com/p/my-most-cherished-cross-patrick-gerard.html
I am filled to the brim after finding this quote shared by my friend, Scot Hahn!
Archbishop Chaput: "When young people ask me how to change the world, I tell them to love each other, get married, stay faithful to one another, have lots of children, and raise those children to be men and women of Christian character. Faith is a seed. It doesn’t flower overnight. It takes time and love and effort.... The future belongs to people with children, not with things. Things rust and break. But every child is a universe of possibility that reaches into eternity, connecting our memories and our hopes in a sign of God’s love across the generations. That’s what matters." 
Wow!!!!  So wonderful to see the Truth in writing and proclaimed by The Church. 
 Jesus in the center.... love, love, love!  The arms are filled with baby girl's each this year.  One thing that I also asked each of my kids to ask the Lord if he wanted them to enter religious life or the priesthood.  Susan said Yes to her call, and we now have a huge family including her Community of the Lamb!


I must admit that I dropped Pat at the gate and did not accompany him to farm fest.  Shame on me!  I came into Redwood Falls and discovered Jesus on the altar for adoration in St Catherine's Catholic Church, and am now in the wonderful public library using their internet!  I have learned that Pat loves to talk farming with anyone and their dog, and I love to have a day away to pray and share my love for Jesus and His Church from the rooftops!  So, as John said this morning, "he wants you to travel with him" which gave me the idea to drop him at the gate with an "enjoy yourself" and then get some wonderful time hanging with my Jesus- praying all 10 decades of my rosary, most of the chaplet, and the litany of our combined 200 member families! 


Hallel with Josephine Francis.... we always get ahold of Hallel to have her praying for the new life in the wombs of her sisters!  Her prayers are so important to all of us as she in a contemplative nun and spends much of her days in prayer, mass, adoration and dishes! 


I too discerned a call to religious life as the thought of being a nun brought me into The Church when my parents offered me a choice to join them and the other kids in joining The Church!
http://familysoulstory.blogspot.com/p/the-amazing-story-of-13-becoming.html
http://familysoulstory.blogspot.com/p/susan-angela-agneslittle-sister-hallel.html
 Christmas 1982... the two oldest - there was a loss between them.  We already had a piece of our hearts in heaven.
 With Ruth in 1981
Then there were 4!  Yes, I sewed their matching dresses for a while.  Pat in a sea of blue and girls...  Yes, we next had John after 2 more losses, and we now have 3 wonderful sons-in-law!
 John arrives in 1989!
 City girl comes to the farm!  It has continued to be evident that I did not grow up on the farm, and don't have it in my genes.  I have tried and failed numerous times, and now am happy to be put out to pasture for the most part!  I see that Pat is not happy with me from time to time.
Honeymoon in Colorado... yes, 39 years has seen a lot of changes on many levels! 


Today Jesus speaks to us about The Kingdom and asks us if we" understand all these things?"  How we long to be found among the righteous!  It was great to find a quote by Thomas Merton today in the meditation of the day....This is the gift of understanding: we pass out of ourselves into the joy of emptiness, of nothingness, in which there is no longer any particular objects of knowledge but only God's truth without limit, without defect, without stain.  This clean light, which tastes of Paradise, is beyond all pride, beyond comment, beyond proprietorship, beyond solitude.  It is in all, and for all.


This was a gift as Merton was very huge for me as a new Catholic - how I rejoiced every day since we joined the Church on Christmas Eve 1971, and I was very much Catholic when I met Pat in 1977 at his sister's wedding!
 Jesus on the altar... such a wonderful way to begin year #40 and all that it will hold for us!


Jesus, how we long to be always good followers of yours!  Each morning we join in prayer and ask that we will put you always first and foremost in our marriage, family and farm life.  Jesus, we trust in you.  Bless-bless, Barb
As if our 7 in heaven were wishing us a wonderful anniversary to walk out of my hour and  a half with Jesus to find this beautiful monument greeting me!  It keeps my eye on heaven forever with Jesus, Mary, St Lydia on this her feastday, and all the Angels and Saints.  I long to do as St Lydia - invite Jesus, Mary and the Saints always into my home! 
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"The rosary is a long chain that links heaven to earth. One end of it is in our hands and the other end is in the hands of the Holy Virgin.... The rosary prayer rises like incense to the feet of the Almighty. Mary responds at once like a beneficial dew, bringing new life to human hearts."
-St Therese

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